Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Care

            I am not on this writing through any research or any discussions. This topic may mean a lot to every person. It is what we all are surrounded by and most of us must think we can never be away from it. This writing is merely my personal perception about the topic. Yes of course care must mean a lot
to us. It is abstract yet most of us want as if it were materialistic. We mostly want to achieve it instead of earning it. Care is never achieved, begged or snatched is earned.
            Care might have different definitions for different people. To some it may be compulsion and to some it may be a way to feel supremacy on who does care.  It’s actually being difficult for me to define this word at this moment as i may not be able to define correct. Talking about me actually I think I would never be able define this word correctly. It is not that I have not been cared or I never felt the way it is to be felt. But how I should interpret it is the main focus that is happening in me at this moment.
              Care of my family is what comes to my mind at first whenever I think about care. I guess their care would never replace any in this world. Care about the friends seems to be the other part I would never miss to mention. Friend word seems synonymous to care at the age when you actually realize the meaning of having friends. I must not limit the meaning of friends in this single word as they are beyond that.
                Now it is the turn to express what I have seen and known around me about care.
“I care you so much but why you not care me ?”
                
                 This is what I frequently hear around me. Is this a question or a way of compelling someone to care in return? There should never be a question mark at somebody’s care neither should there be any compulsion to care. Do those nice stuffs that will compel others to care you. This is what someone be doing instead of putting question marks and compulsions.

“Who cares ”

                  I never understood this statement. Is this a question, an answer or a way to make someone feel angry? If you no care then don’t care, you don’t have to create confusions.

“As if I would care “
              
                I have even used this statement a lots of time. Why I h
ave used it I am not pretty sure by myself :p . There might be two reasons either I really don’t care or I pretend not to care. It is fine not to care but it is worse to pretend not to care. If you do care then it must be stupidity to pretend not to care. Care is never for show off or to pretend. It is what should come from your eternal.
                Defining care must be different for different people and different situations. Actually I have not been trying to define it nor have I tried to categorize it. These are independently my personal feelings that I have accumulated in the form of words in this piece of writing. I would never underestimate the power of care as it is supreme in itself.



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